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I lived with and was married to a female malignant narcissist for 12 years who has BPD and HPD. I endured significant trauma, gas lighting, degrading comments and was left feeling worthless. Now I'm out, living with C-PTSD and watching my kids be treated like textbook Golden Child and Scapegoat children. My daily struggle to get them the hell away from her claws. Have questions, comments, advice? Ask, tell, share. I am here to recover.

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  • Goodbye 
  • Unwanted anger
  • Oreos
  • Attitude
  • A law that will protect victims of narcissistic sociopathic abuse

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Goodbye 

I know this is out of the blue but I have to say goodbye.  As much as I want to … Continue reading Goodbye 

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Unwanted anger

My wife tells me tonight I’ve been quite the asshole today. Angry, moody and just a prick. I don’t know … Continue reading Unwanted anger

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Attitude

I know they say victims of narcissistic abuse tend to have PTSD. I have this. I also know that some … Continue reading Attitude

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A law that will protect victims of narcissistic sociopathic abuse

Yes, it is true. I am working together with an organization from Texas to try to pass a nation-wide law … Continue reading A law that will protect victims of narcissistic sociopathic abuse

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The case: step one

I will continue to update those of you who are following one of the biggest cases I e ever done … Continue reading The case: step one

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Sneak peek into my life right now. 

I’m feeling like opening a door. Most of you may know I’ve started a uphill legal battle against Sara and … Continue reading Sneak peek into my life right now. 

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Catch 22

Studying narcissism has really captured my attention. The plethora of books, YouTube videos and American Psychological Association publications that are … Continue reading Catch 22

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I met my former self today

Strangest thing happened to me today.I work for lawyers. Part of my job – actually, a lot of my job, … Continue reading I met my former self today

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Ready for WAR

I spent 3 hours preparing my legal paperwork to file tomorrow to get my kids away from Sara.  3 hours … Continue reading Ready for WAR

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A Glimpse Into My Past, leaving a Female Narcissist

Once Upon a Time, I posted this on Facebook before I got rid of it.  This sums up what it … Continue reading A Glimpse Into My Past, leaving a Female Narcissist

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