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Surviving Sara

I lived with and was married to a female malignant narcissist for 12 years who has BPD and HPD. I endured significant trauma, gas lighting, degrading comments and was left feeling worthless. Now I'm out, living with C-PTSD and watching my kids be treated like textbook Golden Child and Scapegoat children. My daily struggle to get them the hell away from her claws. Have questions, comments, advice? Ask, tell, share. I am here to recover.

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Recent Posts

  • Goodbye 
  • Unwanted anger
  • Oreos
  • Attitude
  • A law that will protect victims of narcissistic sociopathic abuse

Recent Comments

survivingsara on Goodbye 
chloe88blog on A law that will protect victim…
survivingsara on Goodbye 
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survivingsara on Goodbye 

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  • June 2016
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  • abuse
  • Borderline personality disorder
  • Child abuse
  • CPTSD
  • emotional abuse
  • Equality
  • Fathers
  • Friendship
  • Gay
  • Gay rights
  • Gross
  • Karma
  • Law
  • Massacre
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  • parental alienation
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Month: May 2016

Friendship, Uncategorized

Thoughts of a friend 

I decided to reach out and offer a friendship to a person I want to get to know more.  A … Continue reading Thoughts of a friend 

Peace, Tranquility, Uncategorized

Peace 

I am at peace.  I am sitting in nature I am listening to music I love I am feeling the … Continue reading Peace 

Peace, Tranquility, Uncategorized

Finding Peace in a storm

Speaking literally. It’s raining and storming here. But I’m spending this weekend with all my kids; yes Adam and Michael … Continue reading Finding Peace in a storm

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Strange 

I just met a great person and I don’t even know their name!  That is enough to make me smile. … Continue reading Strange 

abuse, Borderline personality disorder, Child abuse, emotional abuse, Law, narcissism, parental alienation, Uncategorized

The pain is still very real

I’ve been divorced from Sara for 5 years now and I’ve moved on a long time ago, but the pain … Continue reading The pain is still very real

abuse, emotional abuse, narcissism, Uncategorized

Touching base 

Hey all…. I haven’t been on much but I’m still here. I e been dealing a lot lately with my … Continue reading Touching base 

abuse, Borderline personality disorder, Child abuse, emotional abuse, Karma, Law, narcissism, parental alienation, Revenge, Uncategorized

New Book Teaser…. (Fiction)

I sat in my parked vehicle down the alley way from her house with the lights off on a Saturday … Continue reading New Book Teaser…. (Fiction)

abuse, Borderline personality disorder, emotional abuse, narcissism, parental alienation, Uncategorized

A Little Monolithic Achievement!

I wanted to share that last night I found out, as small of an achievement that this is compared to … Continue reading A Little Monolithic Achievement!

abuse, Borderline personality disorder, Child abuse, emotional abuse, Karma, narcissism, parental alienation, Revenge, Uncategorized

Karma karma karma….

With every email from Sara my heart beats faster and my mind plans a little more detail of the last … Continue reading Karma karma karma….

abuse, Borderline personality disorder, Child abuse, emotional abuse, Law, narcissism, parental alienation, Uncategorized

Teleportation???

Gotta love the narcissistic parent. Can you sense my sarcasm?!  Sara loves to sign Adam and Michael up for sports … Continue reading Teleportation???

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